Zing over my head, what is the OP trying to do..... thats not available in queues, for example.
I think you have a mental block any time "/container" get mentioned.
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We kinda don't know what protocol's those VM servers are using – that the key detail to know here.
But, generally speaking, Proxmox support containers/"Docker".... so reverse proxy running there be more typical setup... e.g. if you have the 3 of similar VMs "doing some work" on proxmox based on
incoming WAN traffic to the "cluster".
Assuming need is from 1 x WAN to the 3 x VMs & you wanted to do this in RouterOS. Firewall could use PCC or ECMP* – just the src/dst address flopped from typical LAN->multiWAN. Since load balancing is from "single-WAN to multi-LAN" (well IPs)... All the same firewall mangle stuff for PCC apply, just with the src and dst address swapped. And I'd see queues as an "add-on" to PCC, rather than a substitute for PCC (or ECMP*). But if you're already doing a mangle for PCC... you can add a packet market for use in queues to control latency for sure.
I'm more saying keeping it as "dst-nat" rule from WAN to some new proxy server on proxmox may be simplier approach... than a bunch of firewall mangling needed to do Mikrotik & these proxy have some UI to manage the load sharing without mucking with PCC (or queues). And, depending on protocol, some reverse proxy does more checks on liveness and have more options how to split the incoming load, than anything you could do on a Mikrotik.
#ProtocolsMatter
* For ECMP, you'd add new a route table with dst-address=0.0.0.0/0 listed three times, same scope/disance, just each with different gateway= with the VM's IPs. Then, use some mangle action=mark-routing, based on protocol/port arriving on WAN, to send to need traffic the new route table. ECMP will divide the load based, only src-address (dst-address always be WAN IP, so not useful for ECMP hashing) – so if the traffic that's getting split up is all coming from one far-end client... ECMP be a poor choice. e.g. PCC offers a "both-addresses-and-ports" choice, while ECMP does not just src/dest address.