Oooh boy, I know... Apologies in advance for the apparent heresy of the subject line, but I'm just baffled and any pointers would be great.
My home network is rigged up with mikrotik, I have an RB4011 as my main router and CAPsMAN manager, and then a few cAP acs in various rooms for coverage, obviously managed with CAPsMAN. Wifi is pretty standard, dual 5GHz and 2.4GHz with some custom rates that I know work for my home network (not that it's that relevant but 9Mbps+ for 2.4GHz and 24Mbps+ for 5GHz). This has been working for a few years, with some minor adjustments very sporadically (last time I changed anything was maybe a year back).
If anyone uses Macs and iPhones, I have a MacBook Pro on latest Sonoma, and just got recently an iPhone 15 Pro. Everything connects fine to the home wifi. But when I start FaceTime on the Mac and the continuity camera comes on (that feature where you can use the iPhone's camera on the Mac), the Mac just disconnects from the wifi, every 5 seconds or so. I'm completely baffled. Ethernet connecting the Mac doesn't have this issue at all, so it's something with the wifi. I've tried every single thing that Apple recommends to make this work, including making sure that no Airplay is active, sidecar, etc, etc, etc. It's the wifi.
Not much hope anyone will just solve it for me willy nilly, so any pointers at all on what I could use to troubleshoot what the hell is happening myself?
Much appreciated.